How To Break Up With Your Girlfriend Like A Man

It can be quite difficult to break up with your girlfriend. If you do not handle it properly, then it can get worse. Things can spiral down quickly. It would help if you were a gentleman when you broke up with your girlfriend. Try placing yourself in her shoes. You wouldn’t want to be broken.

So could you do the same with her? It’s okay if things aren’t working out and you want to end the relationship, but you have to break upright. Empathy and compassion are important. You do not want to be harsh or hurtful just because it’s over. She is a human just like you, and she has feelings too, so you need to break up with her gently.

How To Break Up With Your Girlfriend Like A Man

We know that it sounds very complicated, and you wish that you could end it with the snap of a finger, but that does not work, so if you want to let her down gently without hurting her but you don’t know how to do it then don’t worry because we are here today with a list of advice about how to break up with your girlfriend.

So without any further ado, let’s get right into it.

1. Face to Face

The best way to break up with her is to do it face to face. Any other means is just unacceptable. Many people break up over texts, emails, Instagram stories, messenger, or so on, which is directly disrespectful. You guys had a relationship. She is a person, the least you could do is show some respect even if it is the end.

Some idiots also break up by changing their relationship status on social media. This is even more degrading and disrespectful. When it comes to breaking romantic relationships, it’s better to meet her and let her down slowly.

2. Clarity and Honesty

You must tell her the truth. Do not give a lame excuse for breaking up. If you think your relationship is not working, sit down and figure out why it is not working. Please find out the reason behind it and tell her the truth about how you feel honestly. She deserves to know what went wrong.

Don’t present statements like ‘I need a break’ or ‘I need some time to think.’ Could you not give her false hope? If you are ending it, end it clearly, once and for all. It helps her in getting significant closure.

3. Do it promptly

There is no correct time to end a relationship, but that said, if you don’t want to be with her anymore, then it’s better to end it quickly than dragging it on just because you think that break up will be hard. It’s not fair to her.

If you don’t like her anymore, be clear about it instead of sending mixed signals. That can end up hurting her more than the truth. So don’t delay.

4. Be Prepared for Her Reactions

Breakups are never easy. It would help if you were prepared for her reactions. She will be shocked, angry, sad. It is natural. It would help if you were firm in your resolve as well as gentle. If she cries, you can comfort her as a friend but do not give her false hope. Be clear about your feelings. If you feel that she can harm herself, then get appropriate help.

Your girlfriend will be heartbroken by a break up. You don’t have to be harsh to make your point. If she is confused, make her understand slowly. Be patient. Don’t just break up and leave. That’s inconsiderate. Try to be there for her in a friendly way if she needs you.

5. No Comparison

Suppose you leave your current girlfriend for someone else, then it’s better not to draw comparisons between them. If she asks you the reason behind it, do not be stupid and tell her stuff like ‘she is better than you’ or ‘she is more pretty.

These are cruel things to say, and it will not help the situation. In fact, it will worsen it. It’s possible to let her know that you are interested in someone else without hurting her more than necessary.

6. Take Responsibility

It takes two people to make a relationship, and it takes two people to break one. So try to take responsibility for your own drawbacks too. Do not just list the things in her that made you break up with her.

Try to be considerate and consider both sides’ fault, which resulted in the relationship not working out.

7. Be open to her questions

Even after explaining your points and the reason behind breaking up with her, she might still require some clarification on some points. Try to be open to her questions.

Do not narrate a monologue while she is in shock and then leave. Breakups are not hasty. They take a small amount of time. That’s why it is better to do it face to face, as we stated at the very first point. Don’t be impatient if she has a lot of questions.

8. Be Diplomatic

It might happen that you have shared assets, but now you need to divide them. You can sort that out a few days later.

Suppose your ex-girlfriend does not want to be involved with you anymore, then it’s better to get a third party involved, like a lawyer, to negotiate things between you two. Make sure that the division of assets is fair. Be diplomatic to yourself as well as to her.

9. No after-benefits

Well, this goes without saying that you need to cut off ties completely after a break-up. Do not attempt to commemorate your breakup by having sex one last time. It will complicate things more. It would be best if you cut ties with each other. Do not try to become friends with her immediately after you break up.

This will do more harm than good. She can misread the situation leading to more complicated feelings. Give her time to move on, and if you want, you can be friends later. The closure is essential in a break-up, so do not give her false hope to ruin it.

Conclusion

We hope that you have liked this article and that this has been of some use to you. Try to follow the above-mentioned points, and you will be okay. If your previous breakups did not go quite well, it’s okay because now you know better.

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